A Journey of Betrayal and Redemption

What does a woman do when their man cheats? Why do men feel the need to blame women for cheating and making them look and sound crazy? It surely is not an accident but more of a life choice when he simply could have not cheated in the first place, then state that he still loves her. If men and women are in a committed relationship, then why do we take the word of a woman who purposefully and intentionally lies to break the couple up and not take the honesty of her man.
If women are so quick to take the word of another woman over her own man, then why do we ignore women who give us sound advice when some relationships are toxic? Are we born insecure when it comes to relationships or do women set aside their inner warning bells simply because we are the nurturing kind. Watching movies and reading books did nothing to prepare me for what I lived through. This is my journey of betrayal, survival and redemption.